A view from the good seats (at the feet of Jesus – Matthew 18).
A view from the good seats (at the feet of Jesus – Matthew 18).
My daughter likes to repeat herself. She says the same thing over and over again until she gets our attention. Her most recent appeal has been to push her on the swings. Being that she is so young, she’s unable to swing by herself and therefore needs assistance. She wants a “big push” to gain the proper moment to feel the maximum wind flow through her hair. She will literally sit in the swing yelling, “Daddy, come push me!”
The other day I tried to pass off the responsibility by calling my wife over to give her some momentum. As she neared towards the swing, without reservation, my daughter pushed her away and said with great demand, “No! Daddy has to push me!”
Unsure why she wanted me to push her and not my wife was a foreign concept. Therefore, without hesitation I walked over, secured her in the swing, pulled it back as far as it would go, and then let it rip. She shouted with excitement over the exhilaration. My wife looked at me without pausing,
“You push her a lot harder than I do!”
So it is with Jesus. How many times have we sat longing for God to come give us a push? To do something great in our lives that no one else can do. We may of had others push the swing at times but for some odd reason they always came up short, leaving us sitting still begging for our father to come to the job the right way.
I’ll never forget the first time our daughter went to the top. She was nervous how high we were climbing. Fear coursed through her fingers as she clutched the swings chains tighter. We often want the thrill of flying but forget about overcoming the fear to get going or the trust it takes in the one pushing the swing.
What we must cling to is that when we call upon the Lord in faith, He will not only come to our aid, but He will also help us get over the fear of getting to the top. Even better, if we call out to Him and trust Him, He give us the greatest encounter we could of ever experience. He will “never leave us or forsake us” (Hebrews 13:5) as He is the momentum that keeps us going for eternity.
Where are you?
The best is yet to come!
A friend of mine asked me a month back to let him propose at church. We sat down over dumbbells to plan the scenario. With little interference from his soon to be bride we were ready for action. Yesterday he popped the question using great form and perfect timing. Not only did she say “yes”, he got a standing ovation.
Standing ovations are awesome.
The standing “O” makes you feel like you’re doing the right thing. While a human audience’s applause only last a moment, God’s glorious applause for His people lasts an eternity.
As my friend asked his soon to be bride for her hand, the congregation saw an outward action of an internal change. God was on “His feet” because he is in the process of learning what Scripture teaches, living it out realistically, and giving the credit back to God.
Many times we will try and live out what we think we know is best and then go back after a downfall to learn what God’s work teaches on the subject. To make matters worse, if we did consult the scriptures, we will often give ourselves the credit! Double fault! Living out what we think is best and giving credit to ourselves for victories limits God’s favor and silence His applause.
In short, we must learn to give credit where credits due.
As John said, “He must become greater; I must become less.” (John 3:30) That means I learn the truths in the Bible, I live it them out and I give credit to the Lord. In order to truly believe that God will step to help us, His people who believe in Him through faith by the blood of Jesus on the cross, remember that our outward actions are symbolic of what is going on inside, and when we are overcome for Christ, we give God the glory He rightly deserves.
This is how you mature in a relationship with your creator.
Have you ever received a standing ovation? Would you like to get one everyday? Learn God’s Word, live it out and give credit to him for letting you have access to His glorious plan. After all, a heavenly ovation trumps human applause any day of the week!
Rewiring is not only essential to getting information and power back to the people; it’s vital to us growing in our spiritual walk with the Lord. Internal rewiring is a concept that consists of going back into our memories to see where negative feelings and emotions have caused pain. If we can see where our emotions stem there can be great change in the future. While rewiring can be painful, if we are willing to open ourselves to identify internal pain, the freedom obtained will change the course of the future. Imagine being free… Imagine healing and restoration. It’s possible.
STEP 1: Identification – The first step involves identification of what negative emotion you re actually experiencing. Is it unhealthy anger, pride, resentment, loneliness, guilt? What exactly is the emotion causing the main issues in your life? If you are experiencing anger, then you need to understand the first and foremost you’re angry. When we’re aware of our emotions and willing to accept that these emotions exist, that is exactly where at a place where God can use this the most.
NOTE: Sometimes we can identify negative emotions and sometimes it takes the voice of another. Identification also means that we are honest with ourselves when these emotions are presented. This means that identification could come from our own knowledge or a result from hearing the same thing from various people in different situations and circumstances.
STEP 2: The Rewire – Once the emotion is acknowledged, we can now retrace or rewire back to where these emotions stemmed. This involves starting at the most recent event or occurrence the emotion occurred and then tracing back days, weeks, months, and even years to how long this emotion has been prevalent.
NOTE: Understand that this is the most effective when these timelines are written down in a tangible format (think journal, piece of paper, etc.). To actually be able to visually see an emotion and how it has taken root in the soul is what ultimately helps us become free.
STEP 3: Trigger – To deal with an emotion and properly run another “clean” wire means that we will look openly and honestly at what exactly triggers these emotions and terminate them immediately.
NOTE: Understand that some emotions can be tied to people, some emotions can be tied to places, and some emotions can be tied to things. When one identifies these people, places, or things that cause these emotional triggers they then can see what needs to be released from their life.
STEP 4: Terminate – The last of the rewiring is extremely challenging, involving a radical amputation of whatever has caused these specific emotions. In situations that are extreme one may need to move from house, eliminate a relationship (not spouses), or throw out/give away material items such as computers, cars, possessions, etc. We see this a lot with people who smoke cigarettes, as they are encouraged to get rid of their vehicle if they have smoked in that specific automobile. Again, one must understand that this takes either great personal dedication or enlisting the help of someone else.
It’s possible to rewire but understand it takes time, patients, an open mind, and lot of help. You were not born to live with negative emotions from scars in the past. That’s what Christ restores to the broken when they identify, rewire, trigger and terminate what is causing unrest. Allow people to hold you accountable and seek the opportunity to do the hard things to make big change.
You can do it. There is no better time than now.
In elementary school and much in the junior high school there were various complaints on the pace my completed assignments. The thoughts of rushing to complete a test because someone turned his or hers in before me are still crystal clear. The to-do-list was much too important than the tasks on the paper. Forget the individual items getting completed properly, that list needed to get done.
In my immaturity and years of learning to discipline myself to slow down the pace of learning, there was a realization that rushing to complete the list is not always the most beneficial fixation.
If the tasks are accomplished properly, to the best of my ability, the satisfaction of completing the list when accomplished will be twice as great.
If we would slow down and focus on executing objectives at a proper place, to the best of our abilities, we would not only be benefiting ourselves, but ultimately bring glory to God because we are taking pride in our work and focusing all our efforts to one centralized place.
We often lose our momentum due to our distraction. Multitasking has replaced fixation. The focus on executing the “get it all done” mentality has declined the overall quality of our work. Listen, what happens if you don’t get all done? What would happen if one task gets completed to the best of your ability? Which one is better? Wouldn’t it be more beneficial to complete an assignment to the best of your ability instead of doing ten other objectives half way?
In honing in on a task to the best of our ability, you need to be aware of the under current of change. Change is the proper route in self-improvement. Think about a professional athlete. Do you think they got to the big game as a 10-year-old? Not even close. They made it to the big stage because they worked on one skill at a time until they mastered it and moved on to the next. They had coaching talking through each step of their weakness and making small adjustments to master their position.
We all need the same.
What are some goals in your life? What are some small items that need completed properly in order to achieve those goals? Who do you need to come help coach you? Who needs to make small adjustments so that you can master one, central skill?
There’s a good chance if you rush the road to success you will eventually find yourself back in the box of doing many wrong items extremely well. In order to be great for the kingdom of God, understanding that changing yourself to avoid multi-tasking, focusing on accomplishing one thing well, and slowing your pace is key.
May you see the value and appreciate the value of learning in continuously improving on who you are, in the proper time, at the proper pace.
Submissive. That word never really sat right with me. I always thought the Bible used the word to reference how a woman should conduct herself in a marriage relationship. To me the word never had much weight for a man or even a leader.
Submissive has many implications for the life of the Christian, a leader, and men and women in the kingdom of God. While wives are to indeed be submissive to their husband, Paul gave seven qualities in Titus 3 on how Christians can honor the Lord through submission.
Seven traits of a submissive Christian. This is the hope and strength that we need in order to win our community to Jesus Christ and reach the world near and far for the Gospel.
What are you in submission to?